Celebrating Failure

1.        Tell us about a time this past semester that you failed -- whether in this class, or outside of this class. Don't spare any details! It'd be even better if there was something you tried several times this semester, and failed each time.

This semester has been a struggle for me as I chose to take 3 summer courses along with working full time and being a single mom.  Although, I am certain my daughter would have preferred to have more of my attention, I would not say that is a fail.  What I did fail at was in completing tasks at my job.  I took unplanned days off to study and take tests which put my work behind.  It is difficult especially with this class as assignments are due on Friday by midnight. 

2.       Tell us what you learned from it.

I am aware that my job should be the top priority.  I addressed my absence and delay with the partner at the office and made accommodations to come in over the weekend to get caught up.  Even though finishing my degree will help advance my career, if I do not keep on top of my daily duties it can affect my career in another way.

3.       Reflect, in general, on what you think about failure.  Failure is hard, isn’t it?  It’s embarrassing, sure, but it also means that we have to change something about ourselves.  Talk about how you handle failure (emotionally, behaviorally).  Finally, talk about how this class has changed your perspective on failure – are you more likely to take a risk now than you were just a few months ago?

By nature I am harder on myself than anyone else could ever be.  I do not like to fail, but I do not hide behind it.  Instead I face it head on and use it to grow.  When I was younger I might have been defensive but I have learned to acknowledge the flaws which earns you credibility.  No one is perfect. 

In terms of this class, the assignments and lectures point out that failure as an entrepreneur is a requirement in order to determine the best possible solution to the problem you are trying to solve.   Taking the risks to get your idea out there is how you learn to succeed.